I weighed all the points in this discussion when choosing to get new shocks and springs. I ended up with Koni Raid shocks because of how robust they are, and the extended length is in believe the same if not shorter than stock. I also initially bought the EU lift, 30mm, but haven’t installed that for fear of harming the boot.
On a side note regarding Caster, there has to be something to running the caster as low as possible. I’m at 1.5° caster and at 16k miles, stock suspension, and checked the boot last night and looks new, albeit a bit dirty. I’m considering going to a lower caster angle in the future as I find the “terrible steering” not too bad and what I’d expect from a truck with this front end architecture. One of the members of the NorCal Grenadier group is approaching 75k miles with a 2.5” lift and metalcloak adjustable suspension, at .7° caster and still on the original CV.
Granted, lowering the caster makes for worse highway handling, but I think that’s a fair trade off of potentially longer CV service life.