so I went through a lot of trial and error, so hopefully this makes life easier for everyone else. To connect a light bar to the roof AUX DTP connectors, all you need is the contacts for the male plug thats provided. (I thought it was a dummy plug but it isnt, it's functional and just needs the contacts installed)
It seems super obvious to me now, but I didnt find any info while searching.
link to what you need is here :
link to what you need is here :