I certainly wouldn't drive much above 80mph for more than a few minutes at best.
Handling does not change based on time at speed, you just don't care as much when driving 30min vs 4hrs.
I'm not talking gravel roads, well they aren't supposed to be gravel but they might as well be. Rather I am talking regular highways in Texas and Colorado. Colorados roads just suck. Texas roads are perpetually under construction it seems. These are roads that regular vehicles are traveling anywhere from 70mph to over 90mph for very long durations.
I'm just not sure where the disconnect is here, there are plenty of people that have reported handling issues. Maybe you are one of the lucky ones without. Or maybe like others you have just accepted the poor handling and just don't care because you don't know how great it is when they drive right. Well, mostly right.
I find it interesting that those with handling issues are accepting that others don't have the problem, but those that don't seem to have any issues are adamant that the people with issues must be pussies, Dandy's or just plain old Mall Crawling complainers and they need to suck it up or sell their truck and get a Subaru.
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Not telling you that you have a problem, I'm telling you I have a problem. A problem that I have mostly resolved. I have tested the truck in multiple configurations one of which allowed Death Wobble. That's real Death Wobble not just a jiggly steering wheel like I suspect most are thinking of.
Not meaning to be snarky, just a bit perturbed at the moment