You did lay it out well. It hinges on my ability to find a scale to weigh the axles with, something I've found surprisingly difficult. Thus the hunt for a shortcut...
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@parb. Nothing in this list close to you?
Businesses that buy or sell products based on weight will often have a weighbridge. A weighbridge will give a total vehicle mass. Some can give a separate figure for the front and rear by driving part way onto the platform. You need to ask. For Grenadier and QM you want a weighbridge that is accurate in the 2500-4000kg range (5500-8800lbs).
Mobile vehicle weighing services are relatively common here (Australia). They have drive-on individual platforms like oversized bathroom scales that go under each wheel of the vehicle (and trailer) to measure the mass resting on each wheel and axle plus the total vehicle mass.That's the best solution for this activity.
If you cannot get your vehicle weighed then you're most of the way there using your 600lb estimate.
@anand already recommended to go black on the rear. I'll step through it using your +600lbs estimate as an example for others.
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A fair portion of your mods are adding weight over the front axle like the winch, armour, rack and front bar. You have upgraded the front springs already.
You have red rear springs. They are rated up to 1411kg according to the IA table. Blue springs would get you another 56kg (1467 - 1411). The empty weight of the drawers plus around 60% of the rack and awning weight would sit over the rear before you load them. Add a load and the weight shifts further rearwards, especially the drawers. Combined, that would exceed a 56kg gain over the rear axle so blue springs are out.
Black is 112kg higher than red (1523-1411) so black is your only remaining option within the factory spring range.
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If you keep adding weight above what black springs offer then you need an aftermarket spring solution, including the HD Eibach springs.
Assessing for a front spring upgrade is the same process.
Black rear springs plus rear load assist airbags might be sufficient in some scenarios.
You need to stay under the rated axle limits per local market approval or get a rating increase if available (called a Gross Vehicle Mass (GVM) upgrade in Australia).